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Emily
This year my friends took me out to lunch for my birthday. The afternoon was filled with good conversation and laughter, and in a moment of pause one of my friends asked me to sum up what I had learned over the past year. It is amazing how quickly memories can flash through the mind, and I was surprised at how vivid they still were.

Simple things like the courage and serenity that only God can bring. The importance of stopping right now to say, “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” and “I’m so glad you’re mine.” Moments when a heart is so overwhelmed with gratitude that one couldn’t possibly think of words to say. A time of quiet desperation when a prayer for strength led to the realization that angels are always standing near. Days when hope won out after others believed that the time for miracles had gone. A mother’s true sacrifice ––letting life pass by while she cherished that tiny one. Understanding that the power of discernment allows you to see the good. Knowing that giving everything can lead to exhaustion but also to miracles, and that tears of joy can fall at the same time as tears of pain.

To sum it all up I looked at my friend and replied, “This was a year of more.”

Looking back over all of those memories I suddenly realized, I have never learned more in one short year. I feel like I have never cried more. I’ve never laughed more, loved more, and it’s been a long time since I’ve grieved more. Looking back, I’m not sure if I’ve ever given more. It just had been one of those years.

And in those moments when I was not enough I found myself turning to the Savior. I don’t know how it happened, but every time I was in need He gave me more.

More hope, more faith, and more strength. He sent more miracles. And somehow, through it all, more love.

I don’t know when your birthday is, but if I could send one wish just for you it would be simply this…

I hope you have a year of more.

KELLY said...

March 18, 2009

More
Thank you, You've given me a worthy goal to work towards for my own up-coming birthday. I'd like to look back on a year where I can truly sum it up as you have.
Emily
We love to camp, and often spend summer weekends somewhere in the great outdoors. As spring approaches we can barely wait to get the trailer packed and head out. Last Spring, in our excitement, we went too early. We pulled into the sand dunes in Delta, Utah just in time for a major windstorm. What was meant to be a nice relaxing weekend in the soft, warm sunshine turned into a terrible wilderness experience as we traveled all over southern Utah trying to find a break from the wind. We finally ended up at Yuba Lake. It was still really windy, but at least we weren’t surrounded by miles of sand. That afternoon the kids wanted to hike down to the lake. Bundled up in hooded jackets, we followed a small trail down a sharp 25 foot incline and found ourselves in a little cove, with water from the lake lapping along the shore. It only took a few seconds to realize that the wind was not blowing in that little cove. Immediately, we removed our jackets to soak up the warm sunshine, and began to skip rocks across the smooth surface of the lake in front of us. I looked out and watched the whitecaps in the center of the lake that had formed from the force of the wind, and thought how interesting it was that somehow we had found the calm in the midst of the storm. Looking back on that trip, I remember that moment as one of the good parts. Recently I read through 2 Nephi 2 and I noticed that Lehi chose “the good part” just like Martha’s sister, Mary did. I love the understanding that comes from this chapter. Lehi begins by speaking to Jacob, his first-born in the wilderness. He describes that wilderness experience with these words: tribulation, suffer, afflictions, and much sorrow. Then he counsels Jacob by saying, “he shall consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain.” The rest of the chapter is filled with Lehi’s testimony of the importance of free agency, and his abiding belief that men are free to choose. At the very end of that chapter, after testifying of the Savior, Lehi remarks, “and I have chosen the good part.” (2 Nephi 2:30) With careful reflection and a moment of pause we are led to understand a very powerful principle. In the midst of our wilderness experiences we are free to choose. We can immerse ourselves in the tribulation, as we suffer through afflictions and sorrow, or we can understand that God will consecrate our afflictions for our gain. That doesn’t mean that the wilderness experience will be taken away, or even that it will become easier. It simply means that through that wilderness experience we can choose to come to know the greatness of God, and understand, just as Lehi did, that “all things have been done in the wisdom of him who knoweth all things.”(vs. 24) We can choose “the merits, and mercy, and grace of the Holy Messiah.”(vs. 8) We can choose the good part.

William said...

April 27, 2009

Sweet Reminder
What a sweet reminder how powerful our choice is. I am grateful for the wisdom of Lehi and aspire to be a mother that leaves this legacy as well!
Emily
Note: This blog was written by TOFW

It’s not every year that you find a whole handful of really talented, fun and “real” presenters to join the team, but this year we did. Our TOFW family continues to grow and we have just loved each new addition. Emily Freeman is definitely no exception to that.

If you haven’t already had a chance to meet her, when you do, you will quickly come to see why she has become one of our favorite people to be around. She has that gift of becoming a really good friend in a really short amount of time.

We have also found that we love her because her favorite breakfast is ice cream with raspberries and chocolate chips (yes, we said BREAKFAST). She also knows how to make a killer French hot cocoa. And then last but not least, she named her bunny Hershey. (Does anyone else see a pattern in the reasons we love her? We’ll give you a hint… it starts with “choc” and ends with “olate”.)

There are so many reasons we love having Emily as a part of our family that we thought it might be fun to let you have a little “behind the scenes” to this amazing woman’s life.

Be ready to laugh.

We can’t wait for her new book!

And if you are now hooked on Emily like we are, read her last BLOG entry or go take a look at a clip from her TOFW presentation on DBtv.com.

We hope you’ll take a minute and welcome Emily to TOFW!

Thanks for being a part of our family, Emily!

-Your friends at TOFW

Kris said...

September 01, 2009

Wahoo!
It's such a blessing to have this great woman as my friend. She does so much for so many, and does it so well. Thanks for giving of yourself, Em. You are doing a great job! Love, Kris