What Can I Do About Me? is both heartbreaking and heartwarming. It tells the life story of a headstrong mother of 7 children, Rhyll Croshaw, and her personal struggles due to the trauma of her husband’s pornography and sexual addiction. She tells of the choices she made, both mistakes and successes, along this journey, and comes out on the other end not only alive, but a stronger, healthier person with more joy and peace in her life than she could have ever imagined. Thoughts from the author: I struggled for over thirty years to recover from the trauma of my husband’s sexual addiction, and I continue to work on my recovery one day at a time. Here is my important message: recovery and peace are possible. It is my hope that this book will help you find . . . A pathway to healing Hope in the present and in your future An understanding of what real recovery looks and feels like This path to peace includes: Recognizing that there is no way but through Setting boundaries is the most loving thing I can do Forgiveness is not the same as trust I can’t, but He (God) can, and I will let Him Having gratitude in the present moment Self-care is His care I’ll row my own boat I can live happily. . . one day at a time What people are saying about What Can I Do About Me? This unique book not only provides a powerful and authentic narrative about the gut-wrenching realities surrounding a spouse’s pornography and sexual addiction, but it also illuminates a pathway to healing for anyone feeling shame, isolation, fear, or indescribable pain as they deal with this or similar issues. —Jill C. Manning, Ph.D., LMFT; Author of What’s the Big Deal About Pornography and Let’s Talk About the Elephant in the Room. This book taught me how to respond to my husband’s addiction in a way that has provided true healing. I found peace in these pages. —Stephanie H. Rhyll’s story is an unflinching and honest window into the pain that sexual addiction can cause. It represents three stories of learning and redemption as it explores Rhyll’s journey from anguish to understanding, Steven’s path from addiction to recovery, and their continued relational healing as a couple. The courage displayed by this remarkable couple should provide genuine hope to many as they discover that their own path to peace is reachable. —Donald L. Hilton Jr., MD. Author of He Restoreth My Soul.